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You are well within your rights to put your own agenda first today -- even if it means you cause conflict in a group setting. Getting along well with others should be a secondary goal today. After all, you cannot always be everyone's friend. And debate cannot always be fun. Do not compromise what you believe just to get along with the group more easily. Other people might give you grief for not just going along with the plan, but deep down they will respect you for sticking to your guns. kalimat-kalimat di atas adalah sebuah horoskop saya di FS. kata-kata yang biasa namun cukup mengena. maksudnya, berapa kali kita memberi kesempatan bagi diri kita sendiri? bukannya selama ini kita selalu menerapkan prinsip konformitas: yang penting orang lain senang dan kita diterima di pergaulan?